A term created and first used by Wife Coach Laurie McDermott in October 2019. The term captures Laurie's proven strategy to give your midlife crisis spouse the free will God gave him and detach as if you were removing a limb from your body. You can't control him, you can't change him, you can't help him or save him. This is his mess, his life, his choice, his chaos. Not yours. Your job is to Walk Beside Him. Stay Straight on the path and walk right beside him and trust the process.